First things first Happy new year people wish y’all all the best. Hope this year each one of you has a better plan of how you can accomplish your yearly goals. Remember all you do this year contributes to your success and how you start the next year. It’s okay to feel kind of lost for the moment but it not okay to be comfortable with that. Use every opportunity or chance that comes your way in-order to be closer to your dreams or how far you want to go. Be and do you this year. Don’t feel pressured ; feel inspired.
Hi guys , I know I kind off got lost for like a month and some days , those I have on my Instagram or other apps will know life has been lovely regardless my offish behavior. There was a lot of evolving going on and there still is ; I’m so grateful. I decided to take a month off blogging just to have fun lol I missed it though cause writing is like a part of me. I didn’t completely take a break of it , hence I have a few pieces I wrote on my notes , journals and on my tab. Realized you can never get away or avoid something you love. Most of my written pieces are about love I have been trying to better myself ; understand my self within love. I think that where I fell short sometimes I wouldn’t understand the smallest things . All that made me realize you can be a good person but still hurt other people unintentionally due to the fact that you fail to understand whats best for them or even you. At this point understanding is so vital at some point too you able to understand intentions and that when you go trough something you understand it better. I might not know where I’m going will this post but the moral of it is that there is always room to be better and understanding sometimes not for “them” but for your self.
The update is Hi honey I’m better , I’m proud of myself.
#What’s your update?
#How are you going to do things different this year?
We almost there, we almost on that new year new goals spirit. It’s the second last month of the year ; scary right. That’s what I think when I look at the calender. I feel all over the place and pressured that maybe I haven’t done enough , still haven’t accomplished much. The anxiety kicks in to persist the thoughts that play around my mind everytime I see the date , it all seems so far. What a way to start my month. Then there is that positivity that floods after to remind me you can never do everything, you can do just enough. Everything happens in due time. Now is also the right time to turn things around and have time working on your favor. So this month is dedicated to all procrastinators to start doing and stop thinking.
The black girl stays behind show , surcasing everything stay fresh and clean. She never have time to her self , she always think about what could have been. If she was given the time of day to do what she wants, while working on being a better being ; defeating all that oppresses her. They say she is soft to be in control , but the minute she embraces her fierce self they call her bitter, they call her names with no admiration of how much a leader she is to society. The black girl’s demise continues in the modern world for black girl to stay dependent to men , society says she must never be above one cause if so she will never have one. They tell her she will never have it all , it above a black girl’s will to handle it all they make her choose between love & money; so the black girl sacrifices by choosing love cause she craves love , she feed on love. She is the same girl that can make a man feel like a Man. That same black girl is left neglected in the name of love she loses more than her dreams but the ultimate price.
#A clear image of a black girls destiny.
#The black girl’s demise.
#To women that sacrifies their dreams to nurture society.
We are only seperated by language , our skin colour , culture , religion & tribes. We are still one nation. We live in the same world. The world is ours. We all strive for freedom & success now it’s the time to make it ours. We are relatives love brings us together. Lets embrace our diversity and be connected by our similarities. We don’t have to be stangers in groups but family. We share a home called planet earth. We all play significant roles.
It doesn’t take straight hair to be queen. It doesn’t take skin bleaching to fit in. It doesn’t take English to be influential or heard. It doesn’t take that one black girl on the top to determine our success. It doesn’t take bling to show our state of wealth. It doesn’t take a prefect body to measure your worth but it takes a loving heart, an energetic soul. A thoughtful & intellectual mind to build a black queen It takes loving , respecting your origins ; culture and tribes. It about taking pride for who you are not what you are.